So a couple of gal-friends and I got together yesterday to discuss a situation that we all have in common. The lack of a boyfriend, relationship, or male attention in general.
The four of us, we're not so atrociously hideous that we'll turn people into stone and we're fairly bright gals. I don't want to sound high on myself, because really, if I have anything but too high of a self-esteem.
We came to the conclusion last Friday during our Saw 3 outing that we have too strong of personalities. And so Isabel made the group
Hot Chicks with Strong Personalities who Can't Find a BF
http://ucalgary.facebook.com/group.php?gid=2217391103Go in and prove us wrong. At this rate I'm convinced that all men want are dumb, meek and doting girlfriends who have little personality or opinions. I think I've got more feminist and bias views than the other girls and this is probably in part of me taking that urban gender course right now (yes, they off this stuff in urban studies. It's actually really interesting) and watching friends go through some less than gratifying relationships where they ended up getting their hearts broken because they weren't willing to become Suzy Homemaker.
So...it's open for discussion for guys and gals alike. I'd love to get some male feedback.
So far the only male feedback I have is Paul, the violin teacher from work, who tells me that men do want a girl with a personality. But that I need to put myself out there. Translation - I need to be more flirty and overt. He actually told me that being friendly isn't enough.
I refuse however, to become THAT flirty girl who gets guys solely because she dumbs herself down.
So...go join the discussion and solve our mystery. I'm 19 years old and have never been in a relationship. You tell me what I'm doing wrong.